Monday, February 20, 2012

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   This week I am pondering Karma and the effect my actions, and how the actions of others have an effect on my outlook. Karma is not some mysterious force in life - which is what I once thought - it is simply put as:

                                          Because this happens, that happens.

   By example, if I cut my hand while cooking, what happens can be pain, bleeding, a possible emergency room visit to get stitches, more pain, etc. What could also happen is that I don't take care of the wound and I eventually die. Because this happened, that happened.
   Another example, I see you in emotional pain - I experience what I sense about your distress - I then perhaps hold you in your tears, find compassion in myself to enable being more fully present to you, you feel less alone in the disturbing issue, we talk working through the problem if possible, and you feel better. 

   These two examples are a short series of Karmic events that happen between here and there, this and that, what is and what is. Problems happen when we don't pay attention to the unfolding events that are always happening. So, how can we be more awake, more attentive to what is going on moment by moment? Practice is the answer, and having a "Practice," a way of living that promotes skillful understanding of this moment, and this moment, etc. is a truly worthwhile endeavor to develop.

   I have included a list of twelve steps that are in its essence an excellent way of life and living  at the end of this post. There are many more available once we seek them out and know our desire to incorporate good directions in our life.

   The life we have is what we have. The solutions to the eternal question, "Why are we here," can be over time understood a little at a time if we have a Practice that promotes understanding and brings to the forefront our Gift of compassion for our self, and for others in all of life's happenings.

                     - Seeing the forest for the trees is seeing the forest one tree at a time -


   Here is a chapter from the book of Proverbs, ancient biblical advice about guarding against enemies we create and whose long life we can foster. It is followed by the part of the next chapter in proverbs that offers an insightful answer - or perhaps just insight.

Proverbs 7
Warning Against the Adulterating Of Our True Self
 1 My child, keep my words 
   and store up my wisdom within you. 
2 Keep my commands and you will live; 
   guard my teachings as the apple of your eye. 
3 Bind them on your fingers; 
   write them on the tablet of your heart. 
4 Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,” 
   and to insight, “You are my relative.” 
5 They will keep you from the adulterous woman, 
   from the wayward woman with her seductive words.
 6 At the window of my house
   I looked down through the lattice.
7 I saw among the simple,
   I noticed among the young man,
   a youth who had no sense.
8 He was going down the street near her corner,
   walking along in the direction of her house
9 at twilight, as the day was fading,
   as the dark of night set in.
 10 Then out came a woman to meet him,
   dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent.
11 (She is unruly and defiant,
   her feet never stay at home;
12 now in the street, now in the squares,
   at every corner she lurks.)
13 She took hold of him and kissed him
   and with a brazen face she said:
 14 “Today I fulfilled my vows,
   and I have food from my fellowship offering at home.
15 So I came out to meet you;
   I looked for you and have found you!
16 I have covered my bed
   with colored linens from Egypt.
17 I have perfumed my bed
   with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.
18 Come, let’s drink deeply of love till morning;
   let’s enjoy ourselves with love!
19 My husband is not at home;
   he has gone on a long journey.
20 He took his purse filled with money
   and will not be home till full moon.”
 21 With persuasive words she led him astray;
   she seduced him with her smooth talk.
22 All at once he followed her
   like an ox going to the slaughter,
like a deer stepping into a noose
 23 till an arrow pierces his liver,
like a bird darting into a snare,
   little knowing it will cost him his life.
 24 Now then, my sons, listen to me;
   pay attention to what I say.
25 Do not let your heart turn to her ways
   or stray into her paths.
26 Many are the victims she has brought down;
   her slain are a mighty throng.
27 Her house is a highway to the grave,
   leading down to the chambers of death.

Proverbs 8 - Wisdom’s Call

 1 Does not Wisdom call out?
   Does not understanding raise her voice?
2 At the highest point along the way,
   where the paths meet, she takes her stand;
3 beside the gate leading into the city,
   at the entrance, she cries aloud:
4 “To you, O people, I call out;
   I raise my voice to everyone.
5 You who are simple, gain prudence;
   you who are foolish, set your hearts on it.
6 Listen, for I have trustworthy things to say;
   I open my lips to speak what is right.
7 My mouth speaks what is true,
   for my lips detest wickedness.
8 All the words of my mouth are just;
   none of them is crooked or perverse.
9 To the discerning all of them are right;
   they are upright to those who have found knowledge.
10 Choose my instruction instead of silver,
   knowledge rather than choice gold,
11 for Wisdom is more precious than rubies,
   and nothing you desire can compare with her.

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             Do not move away from the tree before it reveals something of its "self " to you


   Here is a fine article on the website of Plum Village, Thich Nhat Hahn's community in southern France. It is an excellent set of directions for living well -

   http://www.plumvillage.org/mindfulness-practice.html

   Please watch the following wonderful short video that proclaims the joy of living one day at a time -

   http://www.flixxy.com/simple-gratitude.htm

   A fine talk on the Eightfold Path to Understanding by Gil Fronsdal who is an excellent, gentle teacher of the Buddhist Way Of Life - Well worth a listen -

   http://www.box.com/s/f92i836unmszgg0obz13

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   The Twelve Steps Of The Four Noble Truths and The Eightfold Path - (Practiced by 300 million plus Buddhists worldwide.)

The Four Noble Truths

There is suffering.
There is the recognition of suffering.
There is the recognition of the path out of suffering.
There is the path out of suffering.

(Which is: ) The Eightfold Path


Right Understanding
Right Thought
Right Speech
Right Action
Right Livelihood
Right Effort
Right Mindfulness
Right Concentration

    It is said that practicing these twelve steps can in themselves be the path to enlightenment, the way to living life fully.

   There are many books on the items on this list, two of which I have placed in the "recommended books" at the top right of this blog.

   Peace and serenity,

   Bill Lagerstrom

                   Seeing the trees one at a time is the the path through the forest



       


                         

Monday, February 13, 2012

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I open with a poem this week. I gave a retreat to a group of men this weekend and I am still in a prayer frame of heart.

     - Let Us Pray –

Just say one prayer with me –
Allow all blaming to pass on the Spirit’s Wind.
Those who you think caused all the trouble, did not –
It’s the turning of the head away from Love’s Gaze that brought the grief.

Turn, look in the direction I am pointing to –
There ! the moon reflects God’s Face, brilliant and accessible to the eye.
If we look long enough, the eyes of our hearts will open –
Then, turning to each other, we will see each other in that Light.

Coyness is for the immature, my heart offers no shame –
So look, and you will see Jesus in this breast,
Along with Mary, the Magdalene, and all those Saints
Who along the way chose to reside here, without apology.

Our Lover, Creator of Orion and the Pleiades’,
Never places the burden of Love in anyone
Without support, and nurture – without joy and peace.
Try carrying this Grace awhile, then you will begin to know.

Jesus made mud to cure the blind man,
I have it here with me, I am free to offer it.
Let me put my hand on your center,
So heart's sight may be opened –

Then we will pray together, without words,
And we will know of the things of The One Who Is.

                                                           
                                                Bill Lagerstrom 

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     Sometimes memories of bleak days come back with a disarming sharpness. Even though the sun may be shinning these past days have a sadness to them that is tinged with a feeling of loneliness. I saw these old emotions in the following picture:


   What has happened over time is that I have a much more secure sense of who I am, and what I am about in life. This sea change of view gives me a different way to see scenes like the one above. Emotions fade from sight easily now and images change to what may only be described as a more mystical feeling where God is presenting the scene through the eyes of the Spirit - details become less important as the eyes of the heart see very differently than the eyes of the intellect. 


    Heart sight can be disturbing at first but with time it can become the preferred way of envisioning what God is always offering to us. The best way to practice seeing with the heart is to close one's eyes and enter into meditation along with a prayer that moves us into becoming prayer as we live our daily experiences. 

   This musing is all about metaphor. I would like to know what your thoughts are about seeing without eyes, hearing without ears, and perhaps touching without hands.

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   Here are two  guided meditations from Tara Brach, the head teacher at the D.C. Insight Meditation Center. Well worth spending some time practicing meditation with as they are only around twenty minutes each. Grab a seat, and "sit." God it has been said only speaks to us in silence, so the "Practice" of sitting in meditation has "benefits without limit."



    Finally, something to consider regarding the Face Of God -

  
   Peace,  Bill Lagerstrom
                  




Monday, February 6, 2012

   Welcome to my blog where each week I will post my thoughts musings on things pertaining to my spiritual life or on life in general. All Photos are mine unless stated otherwise. At the bottom of each posting I will include a link to a song or a talk which I know will be of interest, so please take a listen.


     Along the pathways of living in in the present moment we can utilize many metaphors to describe the Journey we are on. Rumi, the great Persian poet, liked to talk about our existence being only a drop of water falling into a high mountain stream which then takes us on to our destiny. Being carried from stream to river, and eventually river to the the ocean, which was for Rumi metaphor for God as Ocean. The trip is one that can take our entire life, or can happen in a short time if God intervenes and carries us directly to union with Our Beloved. Usually though we have a longer road to go on where we will have many stops as we regroup and find our way back to the streams center, where the water of life flows freely. 


   However the journey the important thing for me to remember. That the steps taken all along the way are what the traveling is about. There is no longer any goal, no milestones to reach, there are these days, just the movement forward each day. I am content to allow life to unfold the same way a bolt of cloth is opened on the cutting table of the seamstress. When life is at an end and I am to be called Home, God will cut the fabric, and the unknown will be known. I am not looking to make that final step just yet, but I have lost most fears of the unknown ahead and I am at peace with this day - with this hour and minute. Still there are dark days as I am entirely human and life offers what life offers. 


    Here is a image of how a wonderful, slow stream carries me on a warm summer day through a passageway here in Bangor, Maine. Next stop is the Penobscot river and the thirty of so miles to the ocean.





    
   At the Metropolitan Museum Of Art on our trip last December the new Islamic wing had just opened. One particular surprise was the Moroccan Courtyard which was created in place in the room it now is in. The Met brought Moroccans over who were among a dying breed of skilled craftsmen who could do the most incredible detailed work with plaster and tile. They stayed for months and left an exhibit that was jaw dropping. Here is the link of a short video showing something of how this project was worked. The video is down at the bottom of the page.
  http://www.metmuseum.org/about%20the%20museum/now%20at%20the%20met/from%20the%20director/2011/building%20history%20the%20making%20of%20the%20mets%20new%20moroccan%20court


   A fine two part article from the NY Times on this project -


http://www.nytimes.com/2011/03/20/arts/design/metropolitan-museums-moroccan-courtyard-takes-shape.html?_r=1


   And some pictures from the Times -


http://www.nytimes.com/slideshow/2011/03/20/arts/design/03202011_MOROCCANSlide.html


    And last some Middle Eastern Music to listen to what another part of the world enjoys. It is called "A Drop Of Water" by Ustad Sultan Kahn. Check it out.


    http://www.box.com/s/7l9147tcovkmr2jd2oxy


   Until next week,  Peace, Bill Lagerstrom

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